Venus in 4th House synastry makes partners want to spend time at home with their families and have dinners with their relatives. The “Venusian” personality skillfully equips that of the Fourth House who, for its part, creates all the conditions for creative self-expression, artistry and social expressiveness of the “Venusian” personality.
The “Venusian” personality inspires the person of the Fourth House to organize home parties and other events with a wide range of guests. Both partners eagerly discuss and actively participate in making exotic dishes and drinks for these bashes. They spare neither money nor time improving their home, trying to make it as comfortable and cozy as possible. In some cases, their home becomes a place for joint business.
With Venus in 4th House synastry, harmony gradually enters the family life of the partners. It develops most favorably if the “Venusian” personality is a woman, and the personality of the Fourth House is a man. Idyll and harmony are not endangered, unless Venus is afflicted. If it is, difficulties arise which are the result of an unpredictable change in moods and hypersensitivity. The usual social activity of the partners is also at risk.
from F. Sakoyan, L. Ecker
Venus in 4th House Synastry Explained
If a Venus in 4th House synastry partner is a member of your family, he or she will decorate your house very much, and you will probably be pleased with his or her unobtrusive presence in the house and taking care of its interior. Needless to say, Venus in Fourth House synastry is a favorable aspect for spouses as it can help them mitigate many contradictions.
The beauty and love of your partner touches you deeply, and you really need them; but it may be hard to guess that this is the case because your reactions are hidden and not obvious to either or the two of you. But the partner, if they so desire, will be able to penetrate into the depths of your soul and soften your most painful contradictions, negativity and intransigence at the level of life attitudes and the deepest beliefs (often unconscious and formed in early childhood). On the other hand, in situations that negate the inclusion of the IV House (when you leave your home), your reactions to your partner’s tender feelings are likely to be quite abstract; which, again, can mislead both of you.
There are very peculiar hidden difficulties in Venus in 4th House synastry. The couple’s egregor expects your partner to help you solve the most complex fundamental issues of your life with his love: for example, to help you discover the source of religious inspiration. The partner, however, may not want to discuss such difficult topics when their Venus turns on, being more inclined to find out whether you love them, and for how long.
from A. Podvodny