Neptune in 11th House synastry relationships are based on mutual intuitive sympathy and close friendship. The partners willingly share hobbies in religion, humanitarian disciplines, mysticism and occultism, intellectual and aesthetic self-improvement. Being socially active, they have many common friends and participate in charity, educational events, and projects related to psychological research.
The “Neptunian” personality helps the Eleventh House person to be more intuitively developed and confident in their powers and abilities. The latter helps the “Neptunian” to realize their intuitive abilities and increase social status and recognition.
In a negative scenario, psychological disharmony significantly worsens the friendly ties between partners, leading to disagreements, misunderstanding of common goals and objectives, and inadequate assessment of each other’s roles which not only alienates the partners from each other but also undermines their joint creative and constructive life activity. Thus, dishonesty, deception, and the pursuit of personal mercantile interests turn former partners and friends into rivals and even enemies.
from F. Sakoyan, L. Ecker
Neptune in 11th House Synastry Explained
Neptune in 11th House synastry partners can be very difficult for you to understand in group work situations. Your friendship will also give you two many false opinions of each other, not to mention the constant temptations of indirect deception, which sometimes arises apart from your desire, as if by itself. At the same time, the partner can be very happy to participate in informal groups you belong to, especially in the Neptunian direction (groupies or, at a low level, alcohol and drug abuse).
Your Neptune in Eleventh House synastry partners’s attitude towards your friends will be biased; with a struck Neptune, he or she will probably take your relationships with them too personally, often being overly nice or overly hostile for no reason. If your friendship starts to work out, the partner (and to some extent you) will have to fight not only with distortions of your image in their perception but also with false feelings of guilt and duty to you, or, conversely, strange grievances against you, the reason for which may be insignificant or completely absent, at least as far as your interpretation of the relationship goes.
In group work, Neptune in 11th House synastry partners can show you how inadequate and ambiguous your participation in the group is perceived – and if you take this lesson correctly, it will give you a lot of valuable insights. Most importantly, you can learn to work more subtly, without putting yourself in the center of attention unnecessarily. However, it is likely that you will try not to pay attention to the distortions of your actions in the perception of your partner, considering it their problems, so after a while your relationship will become more complicated, confused and saturated with deception and self-deception so much that it will be very difficult to establish what’s what.
In general, Neptune in Eleventh House synastry is not likely to work out: you want to enjoy the meditations that it gives; but, unfortunately, with such an attitude they tend to lower the level of their vibrations, so while initially you and your partner may be enchanted with each other, then after a few coctails the enchantment will dissipate without a trace.
from A. Podvodny